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Martin Stubbs

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Martin Stubbs, BACP

Based in United Kingdom ยท 15 years of experience

Counsellor for relationship and family concerns

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At a glance

Registration
BACP, United Kingdom (68103)
Qualifications
BACP
Experience
15 years
Languages
English
Based in
United Kingdom

Details come from information Martin supplied to BetterHelp.

  • Relationship issues
  • Grief and loss
  • Depression and ADHD

About Martin

BACP. Fifteen years' professional experience. Martin Stubbs works with people on relationship problems, family conflict, grief and loss, depression, attention-deficit hyperactivity concerns, and eating-related issues. He describes his approach as creating an open environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment.

Martin uses straightforward conversation to help people clarify what matters to them. He listens to practical details and looks at how patterns of behaviour affect daily life. Sessions aim to identify small, manageable steps people can try between meetings.

He also addresses issues linked to abandonment, attachment, and family of origin concerns. Longer standing patterns in relationships and communication are explored so people can make different choices. Issues such as caregiving stress, ageing and geriatric concerns, and blended family problems are included in his work.

Autism and Asperger syndrome, body image and eating and food-related issues are part of his focus. He will talk through how emotional difficulties connect with routines and self-care. When domestic violence or separation is involved, he looks at safety and practical next steps alongside emotional support.

Martin offers a direct, conversational style that keeps sessions focused and practical. He encourages people to be curious about patterns rather than self-critical. To arrange an initial conversation, follow the site booking steps and complete the short questionnaire before scheduling a first session.

Therapeutic approaches and what online counselling involves

Martin uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on patterns of thinking and behaviour. One common approach looks at how habitual thoughts and actions keep problems going and helps people experiment with new ways of responding; this can help with depression, eating concerns and low mood. Another approach examines relationship patterns and attachment issues to improve communication and reduce repeated conflicts; this is useful for relationship and family difficulties.

Deciding which approach to use is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss options with the client, consider their goals and preferences, and then try methods that fit the problem and the person. They may adjust the approach over time based on what works in sessions and between meetings.

Confirm the specific session formats before booking, as the biography does not list them. Online counselling can make sessions easier to fit into a routine, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when days are busy. For some people, a phone call can be simpler if they do not want video, while video sessions let the therapist and client see non-verbal cues. Check available formats and schedule options during the booking process to find what suits everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefDepressionADHD

Also works with

Eating disorders

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

15+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with relationship difficulties, family conflict, grief and loss, depression, ADHD concerns and eating-related issues.

What is his counselling style?

He uses a direct, conversational approach that focuses on practical steps and patterns in everyday behaviour.

How much experience does he have?

He has 15 years of professional experience working with people on relationship and emotional issues.

Is he registered with a professional body?

He is affiliated with the BACP as stated in his credentials.

Does he offer sessions in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK use his services?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin counselling with him?

Use the See online counselling options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session through the booking flow.

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